Love is always conditional, and that’s not an inherently bad thing. In fact, it can be a very beneficial thing when we understand the circumstances when we do or do not feel love. That understanding can help us to fine-tune our conscious boundaries so that we can avoid giving love to those who do not deserve it, and give love with abandon to those who do deserve it.
Read MoreMost love magic is ethical, but the unethical kinds of love magic are so flashy and sensational that unethical love magic is usually the first, and often the only kind of love magic to come to mind when the subject is mentioned. What makes love magic ethical or unethical usually boils down to matters of consent.
Read MoreIf you are among the multitudes of people who have trouble loving, or even liking, themselves, love magic can be a powerful tool to help yourself love yourself more. It can support shadow work and therapy, by adding a magical push to the mental and physical efforts you make.
Read MoreAs far back as I can remember into my childhood, I wanted to live a life free from regrets. Now that I am in my 40’s I have a rather large number of them, but I also do not feel like I let myself down. When I said “free from regrets”, what I really meant was “wouldn’t go back to change it if I could.” Accumulating regrets is a natural part of living, and although I do regret how things turned out now and again, I respect and understand all my choices that led up to those things. I can’t think of a single one where I look back and genuinely wish I had made another choice.
Read MoreChapter 23 – My situation with my family is tragic, but the tragedy is not found in the act of walking entirely away from them. The tragedy is in the fact that they were not capable of being family that was worth having. I will forever be grateful that I was able to understand that fact, and eventually walked away from them for good.
Read MoreChapter 4 – “Artists always starve.” That sentence will probably echo in my head in Father’s voice for the rest of my life.
Read MoreChapter 3 – Critical introspection is the ability to objectively and critically evaluate the internal workings of your own consciousness. No matter how daunting that may seem, it is an essential tool for improving or healing your mental/emotional self, because without it you are never going to be able to address the root causes of any issues. Developing this skill was essential to my healing journey.
Read MoreChapter 1 – I always had shelter, but did not always have food, and love, well, that was complicated. It should not have been, but it was. As I grew up, my parents constantly said that they loved me, and at the time I did believe them, but tangible, sincere demonstrations of that love, especially little demonstrations, were far less common, and usually delivered in obligatory settings.
Read MoreChronic conditions are CHRONIC, so this sigil is intended to help manage symptoms and boost medical care, vs attempting to cure. The Chronic Pain Management Sigil seeks to support higher quality of life through reduction of symptoms, warding against detrimental things, soothing the body and mind, and increasing beneficial aspects.
Read MoreThe intent of the Sigil to Calm Hormonal Mood Swings is to reduce the severity of hormonal mood swings and help the hormonal cycle stay in a healthy rhythm. No matter your age or gender, it can help to reduce the severity of those mood swings, and help you remain consciously aware and keep your head even if the mood swings get bad. It will also help to regulate your cycles so that they are in as healthy a rhythm as possible for you.
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