I have created updated sigil graphics, so that all community use sigils are now available in a graphic that includes either the specific intents of the sigil, or an incantation to accompany the sigil. This is to help clarify the intents of the sigils when they are found out in the wilds of the internet, and to aid with effective sharing.
Read MoreThe Sigil for Aging Cat Health is designed to support good health and quality of life for cats as they age, but remember that no amount of sigils or witchcraft is a substitute for meeting your cat’s physical needs for comfort and good health. Always take care of business so your spellwork has a solid foundation from which to affect reality.
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This is a sigil for healthy bones and joints. One of my dear friends has some bone and joint issues due to old injuries, so back in 2019 I created this sigil to help. This updated graphic provides includes a newly crafted incantation to accompany the sigil and make the intent of the sigil more immediately visible when sharing online.
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Anger is an incredibly powerful emotion, and at the same time an incredibly tricky emotion to wield in healthy ways. It is a volatile fuel that is usually unsustainable and will burn you if you try to hold it for too long, but when given healthy space, that same volatile fuel will naturally burn itself out and can facilitate the most amazing transformations.
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I was the guest on CTCW Otherworldly on speaking ill of the dead. If you missed the live broadcast, you can watch it here.
Read MoreTo my tremendous delight, I will be speaking on CTCW’s Otherworldly show this week! We will be talking about speaking ill of the dead while still respecting the grieving process, and the importance of accountability for healing, growth, and creating social change.
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How the concept of “don’t speak ill of the dead” is typically utilized is fraught with dismissal and erasure. Every time someone problematic dies, it is nearly inevitable to hear statements of “don’t speak ill of the dead,” but who does that idea serve? What benefit does it have? Certainly, if we want to learn from the past and honor those who have been harmed by people now deceased, we must speak honestly of the dead, even if being honest means speaking ill.
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I am a very strong proponent of Accountability Culture. Accountability is key to personal and community growth, healing and reconciliation, and achieving peaceful intersectional inclusion. Accountability Culture is to Cancel Culture, what Call-In Culture is to Call-Out Culture, in that it holds people responsible for their words and actions, while also providing the opportunity for growth, change, and reconciliation before bringing down the hammer of ultimate judgement and banishment on those who refuse to be accountable.
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As cases of COVID-19 are surging throughout the United States, I cannot help but wonder about my birth family, how they are faring, and if they are safe. It is a strange thing to have no idea, to be aware that I may never know, to be glad for the estrangement which prevents that knowledge, and yet to wonder and hope that they are well. It creates a paradox of conflicting emotions, a cognitive dissonance, to be so concerned, and yet know that it is far and away in my best interest to retain the distance of estrangement I created.
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Instead of promoting healing, toxic forgiveness usually gives perpetrators a free pass on bad behavior and allows toxic or abusive situations to continue.
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