Love is always conditional, and that’s not an inherently bad thing. In fact, it can be a very beneficial thing when we understand the circumstances when we do or do not feel love. That understanding can help us to fine-tune our conscious boundaries so that we can avoid giving love to those who do not deserve it, and give love with abandon to those who do deserve it.
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Most love magic is ethical, but the unethical kinds of love magic are so flashy and sensational that unethical love magic is usually the first, and often the only kind of love magic to come to mind when the subject is mentioned. What makes love magic ethical or unethical usually boils down to matters of consent.
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If you are among the multitudes of people who have trouble loving, or even liking, themselves, love magic can be a powerful tool to help yourself love yourself more. It can support shadow work and therapy, by adding a magical push to the mental and physical efforts you make.
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Chapter 1 – I always had shelter, but did not always have food, and love, well, that was complicated. It should not have been, but it was. As I grew up, my parents constantly said that they loved me, and at the time I did believe them, but tangible, sincere demonstrations of that love, especially little demonstrations, were far less common, and usually delivered in obligatory settings.
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The I Accept Good Things Sigil is a shadow work sigil designed to help those who struggle with feeling that they do not deserve support, help, love, or for good things to come their way.
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Join me on a journey. The following narrative and visualizations are a blending of several trance journeys I have taken through my subconscious.
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I am not saying cats are perfect (although cats are perfect). However, they have ways of dealing with the things they encounter in life that are different from how most humans are inclined to handle things. We can learn a lot by observing how different dynamics, actions, and attitudes affect the outcomes of circumstances not so different from our own.
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I have mentioned repeatedly in various articles that it is important to be completely honest with yourself, especially when engaging with shadow work. I also usually include a few words about how critical it is to be compassionate and non-judgmental in your honesty, but what exactly does that mean? How do you avoid being hyper-critical or beating yourself up when you are honest with yourself about things you do not like? It is far easier said than done, but I believe that process works best with loving honesty instead of brutal honesty.
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Claiming unconditional ownership of your own body has profound positive implications for mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and magical wellbeing.
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If your body includes a uterus that produces a period, you can perform menstrual magic. It is an incredibly powerful component for spellwork.
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